A few post ago we explained that adoption was not a plan B for our family, but plan A. As we came to a point in our lives and marriage of desiring to start a family our hearts continued to be led to adoption along with trying to have children simultaneously. As the months continued to go by (now almost two years) we decided to undergo infertility testing. We were told in February of this year we had a very small to no chance of having children biologically. There may be a chance of trying with In Vetro Fertilization (IVF) but even then we would need to see a specialist to determine if this would be a possibility. We knew in our hearts the Lord had clearly called us to adopt and it was again a very clear decision for us to choose adoption over IVF at this time. This led us to begin to look into the possibility of starting a second adoption. It is neat to look back even with reading these post of what we have written thus far and see how God continues to move, provide, and open and close doors. We have learned that whatever plan we think we are following A, B, C etc. as followers of Christ it is His plan and it is ultimately for His glory. We will have to be honest in saying that at times it has not been easy or painless but being able to look back at even this journey makes me love and trust the Lord more and more, and there is so much joy and peace in that alone!
In March of this year we began to search different adoption options. We prayed and researched about domestic adoption and other programs of international adoption. So much happened in this time I will have to spare all the details but in the end the doors opened up very wide and very quickly to pursue a waiting child from South Korea. On April 14, 2014 we were matched with a beautiful baby boy from South Korea!!
Since this time our home study has been updated (re-written) to meet the requirements of South Korea, and to work with two separate agencies to pursue two adoptions at the same time. For some of you, it may seem like we are crazy, others it may seem simple, and to those other adoptive parents out there understand just how much paperwork and mind-boggling it really is. It is a pretty overwhelming process and ridiculous but we are grateful we have been able to persevere and we are finally seeing the light at the end of the tunnel (for now) regarding paperwork.
We are currently waiting on our agency to contact us to begin the immigration paper work which is the last step in the paper chase process. We have been given an "estimated" time of 18 months from now before we can meet, travel, and bring our son home. We hope to have a more clear estimation regarding a timeline and more details of our son within the next few weeks.
Today is a very special day. A year ago today, our son was born! His mother chose life for him and also chose unselfishly it was best for him to place her baby boy for adoption. We are so grateful for this woman. We are grateful for his foster parents who are currently taking care of him. We are grateful for God's sovereign plan!
Oh little buddy, you are so loved! We celebrate you and your life today. Happy First Birthday Charlie! We love you son, and cannot wait to meet you!
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| June 29, 2014 |
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| A few gifts from your Aunt Emily, Alyson, and Dad and Mom. Happy 1st Birthday Charlie! |
